40 year old man dating 30 year old woman
But we were not necessarily built for relationships that last forever. So often these days men find themselves single again in their late 30s or early 40s.They come to me and share their pain and concerns that they have to start dating again. It is much easier for a man in his 40s to find desirable dating partners of the female persuasion. You need only look at the numbers to figure out why.Some people just never get the chance to marry at a time where they are expected to which now appears to be in their 30s.Personally life is not supposed to follow a set of rules. My Brother is 11 years younger than his partner and they have been together for 10 or so years. Some people just don't have any luck with finding someone close to their own age who is right for them as a couple. Do you have someone in mind who you want to ask out?I sometimes meet up with friends and know others who are young and am used to being in a younger crowd, so it would not bother me.Obviously I can't speak from a guy's point of view, and am curious about what they think myself.Mine was in the beginning; telling me how beautiful I was....proud he was to be seen wit me etc... In the end my self consciousness rubbed off on him and I think he became selfconscious.I think that's more down to your own feelings rather than a general age gap. If it was me (although I'm female), I wouldn't care being seen with the younger guy since I don't look my age so much. If the gap LOOKED a lot different just looking at you then yes, it would be awkward - but although the guy I like is a lot younger and I feel that I probably look a lot older than girls his age, it stands out awkwardly.
This works quite well for the procreation of the species.I was terrified of negative comments so we never went out.