Christian dating controlling relationships
Before you can regain your individuality and strength, you’ll need to determine if the relationship is taking something away, and, if so, put an end to the destructive cycle.
She won’t get into the shower until , so you’ll be calling to apologize, and inconveniencing everyone as you all wait for her. This person likes getting you outside your comfort zone, because then he is pulling the strings, getting one over on you. If you earn less, he may require you to ask permission to buy things, seriously restricting even rare personal purchases, or may demand a long and/or emotional discussion of even trivial expenses.
He does something that is totally unacceptable then asks your forgiveness, tells you he realizes he was wrong, and promises to change.
He seems utterly sincere and convincing – but it is part of the control.
Are you obsessing about activities that require you to be alone (any time you can’t be with your love)?
Have all the goals and activities that previously defined you suddenly been pushed to the back burner for no reason other than that your love is not into them?
Are your family relationships suddenly filled with tension, every time your partner’s name comes up?