Dating advice text or call
That's much more likely to get them to respond."10. What you send them isn't really as important as they way you send it.
Guys only really mess up the follow-up text when they text too much, rather than too soon.
You don’t have to waste your energy on someone who’s not in it with you. However, if you’ve had a couple of dates already, and if you’ve slept with them, and they don’t respond to your text, assume they didn’t see it. CS: What are some things you should never do while waiting for a text? Go to the gym, take a walk, go shopping, cook something—put your energy into another activity. It’s going to turn you into ‘the boy who cried wolf’ for when you really do need advice! If you can discipline yourself not to check your phone obsessively, and have business as usual, great.
Some people get lots of texts and it’s easy for one to be missed or to accidentally be marked as “read.” So, wait a day or two and try them again. They may be doing their best to move on and not have the tools for proper closure—or if you still think it’s an oversight or that they’re sick or out of town, get offline and pick up the phone to give them a call. AM: Don’t watch water boil, and don’t keep checking your phone for a response. CS: How can you keep yourself from becoming obsessed over the response time and watching your phone like a hawk? But if you can’t, distract yourself with other means.
"If you ever find that things have gone really quiet and you want to stimulate the conversation again, send them a completely blank text.
Hopefully they'll reply asking what you meant so now you are back in touch.
While some women will certainly find this sweet, it can come across as kind of parental, which is the antithesis of horny.