Friends just started dating
For that reason expressing these feelings on Facebook is best avoided.
If your feelings stem more from your problems with relationships and/or confidence, counselling may be of benefit If you have real concerns that won’t go away are you able to speak to them individually or together?
Ask yourself if they were describing the same relationship but with different people would you still be feeling anxious or using words like ‘disgust’?
Doing this may help you identify what anxieties you have that are understandable but probably aren’t going to become an issue, and ones where you feel you do need to say or do something – although not necessarily with them.
I’m not sure what flipped the switch for me, but I’d already cheered him when he ran two marathons, listened when his wife left and they divorced, and written while he lived abroad twice serving a medical charity.
It may be they’re so loved up they’ve not thought about how their relationship impacts on others, or perhaps have worries like you do so a conversation about it may reassure you all.While my sudden unspoken desire was to deepen our intimacy, Paul’s signals proved alternately encouraging then confusing.A promised lunch together that fell through due to sickness; a lingering smile at my door one day turned into distracted “gotta run, department meeting” the next.Writing about how you feel could be a useful outlet, remembering these very strong feelings may subside as you get used to the situation.
If you’ve a friend or family member who you can trust to share your concerns in confidence this may be useful, although you’ll want to avoid this escalating into a family drama.You may privately set yourself some ground rules that may help.