Other times I think we’re doing the worst thing possible, it depends what happens that day.I’d be more than happy if people did not have affairs and I had to get a new job, but unfortunately that’s not the way the world works. The disappearance of a baby from a small coastal town in Australia is the catalyst for a journey into the disintegrating psychology of a young couple as they deal with an unthinkable ...Recently my inbox looked like this: 'You know what they say about men with big feet? 'Over a third of people said they had or had considered cheating on their partner.' The emails came from Illicit Encounters, a dating website aimed at married people who desire affairs with other married people. Tabloids have been telling us that the sanctity of marriage (whatever that sanctity is) has been in crisis for decades now.We didn’t invent adultery and I think if someone wants to cheat they’re going to find a way to do so.Some relationships have stayed together because of the website, because they’ve not been caught and broken up families. Some people want to cheat because that’s the sort of person they are and in some senses I feel grateful I’m taking their money. I can sit here and convince myself that actually we’re doing a great service, sometimes.We’ve seen a massive number of people sign up who have effectively split up with their partner but can’t sell their homes, so can’t split up and can’t get a divorce. We've had a good number of occasions where both husband and wife sign up to the website – that’s become much more of a saddening trend now.
According to the site, nearly 930,000 married people in the UK had signed up to the site. The idea of an ‘everlasting union’ has been worn away by the likes of Kim Kardashian’s 72-day sham second marriage and Tiger Woods' umpteenth affair.At singles2za you will find the same kind of online dating system that you will find at other well known South African dating sites where you would pay anything from R100 to a couple of hundred rands per month.