Importance of traditional dating


23-Dec-2019 19:54

Regardless of when you have sex, it's pretty much a given fact that when two people who find each other attractive start getting together, sex is probably going to happen at one point.

But just how important is sex in a new relationship? Or do you go with the flow and go with the intense sexual energy flowing between you two?

It’s not always about finding love so much as it is about finding a potential marriage partner who fits with one’s own ideals.

For example, although many men get married without a house and a car, Chinese women will often say that they’re looking for these things because that’s the sort of person who probably has a stable career and will be able to provide for her and their future children in the long-term. As one contestant on China’s most popular dating show put it, "I’d rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle." Every parent is different, of course, but in general Chinese parents expect to be more involved in their children’s relationships.

More than tradition, society, or culture, dating in China is governed by what the specific individuals in the relationship think and feel, and it’s not too hard to find Chinese couples that don’t fit all or even any of the general observations above.

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This is a big part of why dating is often taken so seriously.

Your access to the NCBI website at gov has been temporarily blocked due to a possible misuse/abuse situation involving your site.Besides, if you want something done, it’s better to do it yourself. Needless to say, when it comes to sex in new relationships, I don't believe in waiting for a certain date or amount of days before you sleep with someone.



In college: This thought process works out pretty well in college, especially since almost the entire student body is on dating apps, anyway.… continue reading »


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