Maybe some other time dating
"It depends on how rapidly or slowly things progress." Joan Allen, a relationship expert, finds that baby boomers are far more likely to wait to have sex than younger daters.
"I spoke with a young man in his early to mid-20s who told me that if he didn't have sex on the first or second night, he'd move on to the next person," she recalls."Make sure your brain, heart, and penis are in conjunction -- they should all be in a straight line before you have sex," she says.