Women dating nice guys
He kept sending messages for hours, and tried calling me from different numbers.I told him I couldn't talk to him right then, and wasn't interested in him anyway. You know, the one was says you're "not like other girls" and pretends to be so caring and chill (but then immediately goes into bellend mode when you reject him). But "nice guys" in quote marks are the ones who act super nice, but beneath the surface are complete arseholes. I decided it wasn’t a good fit and politely broke it off after the date ended.Here, women who dated "nice guys" share their worst experiences. "He then proceeded to basically stalk me for almost a year. Left lengthy voicemails professing his love for me, and even would show up unannounced at my work to see me.Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. It’s basic human instinct to go after sexy bad boys as a breeding strategy.A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. What woman doesn’t want her kid to be powered by tough guy genes?
The next day he texted and told me he never again will defend his integrity, and also told me that if I was one of his workmates he would have just 'told me to fuck off'." "Went on a date with a guy who seemed goofy but nice, and normal enough. He parked near my apartment and we Ubered to a restaurant. I paid for half the meal and the Uber back to my place.He pulled some statistics about women being underpaid, and was clearly giving himself a mental pat on the back for his contribution to the conversation.An hour later, after we had left, he then referred to one of the women we were talking to as a 'cunt' for her strong views.He said he would have been amazing to me, and I didn't deserve to be with him, and I would have to work to regain his trust." "A guy I went on a few dates with me kept volunteering that he's 'not like other guys' (not even in response to anything I had said), and talked about how most men are chauvinistic, etc. He also complained about how the issue of sexism at his work came up because he got promoted over a female candidate, and how stupid that was because the panel that promoted him had women on it.
I should have run screaming for the hills by this stage.
He complained about the art the whole time, then complained about the food at lunch.